The Time is Now

"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why we call it the present."

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Time. Wow, what a complicated 4-letter word. I've always been quite interested in the concept of time and I've found it being placed on my heart a lot lately. We might not always be aware of time, but it's always there. It's amazing to me how time works. When you are enjoying something [for example; spending the weekend with a loved one], time seems to travel much quicker while the opposite seems to be true when you are not enjoying something [for example: staring at the clock during an extremely boring lecture]. In the reality of things, time is always constant [traveling at the same rate]. Time can never be re-winded or fast forwarded [sorry, Back to the Future fans]. We never get the same exact Wed, June 10, 2015 at 9:30 pm over again. There are no do-overs. That is why we must make the most of Now.

With that being said, dwelling on the past is unhealthy and prevents present enjoyment. I encourage you to let go of the things from the past that are weighing you down. These may be things that you regret or/ feel guilty about. You have the opportunity today to improve yourself and make amends for a past you may not be proud of.

As a college student, I'm experiencing a point in my life where a lot of things are uncertain. I keep getting told "you have your whole life ahead of you" and have been questioned many, many times, "What are you majoring in?" [you can probably relate to this]. I feel like I am 'running out of time' trying to make decisions along the pathway to my future. This leads to a lot of unnecessary stress, which I'll have enough of in the future. Right now, I just need to enjoy being a college student and everything that entails. I'll never be 20 years old again. I'll never be at this point in my life again and I might as well enjoy it while I can [in my life, that includes studying for tests, writing papers,venting to family about a rough day, not being responsible for paying rent, cooking ramen noodles, washing my blender, working a part-time job & etc]. Each stage of life will bring it's own positives along with the negatives. Even though I may not always express it, I am thankful for the aspects of life that I am currently being given.

Truth be told, I am scared of growing up. My future is ultimately unknown in my own pair of eyes. I don't know where my future income is going to be derived from for one thing. I'm the type of person that likes to be organized and it makes me feel safe to have a plan. I like to be prepared and know what's going to happen. When it comes to my future, I simply do not know. Although growing up can include some fun and exciting aspects [and is something to look forward to even if scary], I think we should slow down and take the time to enjoy/live in the now. Now I'm not saying we shouldn't be prepared for the future. I'm also not telling you to live recklessly. What I am saying is that we should not take advantage of time we are currently given. We should live each day to the fullest and not just rush it to arrive at the 'destination' you're aiming for. With that being said, "stop waiting for Friday, for summer, for someone to fall in love with you, for life. Happiness is achieved when you stop waiting for it and make the most of the moment you are in now."

At times, I am guilty of procrastinating. Don't tell yourself "Oh, I will do this tomorrow." Why not now? If you have the time to do it now, why not get started and do it right away? Chances are, you will be glad you did.

Enjoy the blessing(s) of today:

"This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." ~Psalm 118:24 [Glory be to God for each day we are blessed with and wake up to (whether we are ready for the annoying alarm to go off or not)]

"Lord, remind me how brief my time on earth will be. Remind me that my days are numbered--how fleeting my life is." ~Psalm 39:4 [this is an eye-opener to the fact that our earthly days are limited in number. The Lord wants us to be aware that time is precious and He desires for us to use this time we have been given in a precious manner]

I feel like I'm being slightly redundant here [for the sake of myself strengthening my own 'friendship' with time]. My goal through this blog post is to express what's been on my heart lately.

To conclude this post, I hope that you will choose to use your time wisely. Do not be so quick to rush things [appreciate the Now]. In addition to these things, I hope that you appreciate/give thanks to the present time you have been given.

until next time,
Lauren

Inspirational Quotes: Good for the Soul

I reeeaaaallllly like eating strawberries with Hershey's chocolate spread [believe it or not, it's even better tasting than Nutella!]. I find myself eating this magical combination quite frequently and if you know me well enough, you are probably already aware of this [but I must warn you: I find this chocolate to be quite addicting, so consider yourself warned]. Quite similarly, I like quotes just as much for their sweetness and goodness for my soul [cheesy, right?]. There is something just oh-so-wonderful about quotes and how the words are strung together [like beads making a beautiful piece of jewelry to admire]. Quotes are filled with wisdom and make me feel all warm & fuzzy inside. I'm hoping to share that with you by listing some quotes below that I really enjoy. Maybe, just maybe you'll find some of these quotes applying to your life at this very moment. I am a believer in being surrounded with positives [even when faced with the negative/not-so-good times]. I consider quotes to be a positive and even find myself jotting them down as good reminders throughout the day.

Lauren's List of Quotes:

• "Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." 
• "Having courage does not mean we are unafraid." -Maya Angelou
• "Stop waiting for Friday, for summer, for someone to fall in love with you, for life. Happiness is achieved when you stop waiting for it and make the most of the moment you are in now." [this is easier said than done]
• "Ask yourself if what you're doing today is getting you closer to where you want to be tomorrow." 
• "Everyday is a good day to be alive, whether the sun is shining or not." 
• "Be a light in a world of darkness." 
• "Be your own kind of beautiful." 
• "Be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about." 
• "Hakuna Matata. It means no worries for the rest of your days." -Lion King [of course I had to include this one]
• "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." -Dr. Seuss 
• "Don't do it [whatever it may mean in your life] to impress someone else. Do it to satisfy yourself."
• "Do the right thing...even when no one is looking." 
• "Do what you feel in your heart to be right--for you'll be criticized anyway." -Eleanor Roosevelt
• "Keep smiling because life is a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about." -Marilyn Monroe 
• "Don't rush and never settle. If it's meant to be, it will be." 
• "Forgiveness doesn't excuse their behavior. Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart." [wow, this is powerful stuff]
• "Sometimes God calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storms rage and calms His child." 
• "You is kind, you is smart, you is important." -Aibileen Clark from The Help 
• "Be happy with what you have while working for what you want." -Helen Keller 
• "Don't wait for sleep to dream." 
• "You will never influence the world by trying to be like it."
• "In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take." 

[& please feel free to share any of your fav quotes with me!]

until next time, 

Lauren

P.S. definitely consider trying Hershey's chocolate spread if you haven't already. You won't regret it! 

1st post: Just Getting Started

Soooo... I'm giving this whole blog thing a try. I'm not actually good at writing, but I'm willing to give blogging a shot [we'll see how this goes]. I thought to myself what better time than now, especially since it's summer and I'm not taking classes at the moment. Summer also gives me the time to do things like bring out old Taylor Swift cds and listen to them on shuffle in my room [and while in the shower, of course]. The song "Ours" came on and the lyric where Taylor sings out in her high-pitched voice, "people throw rocks at things that shine," got me thinking. This line has always stood out to me, but even more so tonight with the controversy of Bruce Jenner's 'sex-change' all over Facebook. While seeing nasty comments online about Bruce Jenner made me feel sad.  Initially, I was skeptical about this matter myself, but after some thinking, I came to realize that everyone just wants to be accepted for who they are [including the now Caitlyn Jenner]. I am in no position to judge.

I've heard many, many times throughout my 20 years of life that people put others down in order to make themselves feel better. And this happens to be so true whether you'd like to admit it or not. I am 100% guilty of judging others at times due to aspects ranging anywhere from appearance ("oh, she wears waaay too much makeup") to personal possessions ("wow, so & so has the latest and greatest iphone"). A majority of the time, I have ABSOLUTELY NO right to judge because I do not personally even know the person I am judging. It seems so easy just to jump to conclusions, but you don't really know who a person is judging from these things. They are more than the makeup they may be 'hiding' behind or the latest iphone they text away at 102 mph. In the moment, I may not always feel guilty about making judgments, but usually afterwards it'll hit me and I'll feel quite bad about it.

Each and every one of us is fearfully and wonderfully made by a God who loves us all. Everyone is worthy of being loved in the eyes of the Lord. We, like the Lord, should do just that and show LOVE to others. After all, this world could sure use a whole lot more of it. [P.S. Jesus even calls us to love one another in John 13:34-35.]

Concluding this post, I encourage others [including myself] to take a step back and think the next time you decide to make a quick judgement about someone. We should ask ourselves questions like "Is this really necessary to say?" and "Do I really know that this is true or am I just assuming?"

Short and sweet reminder: showing love to others can go a tremendous way and typically makes us feel even better about ourselves [and not feel guilty about being judgey and putting others down]. Just keep in mind that it's worth it in the long run to refrain from judgmental remarks [love>>>>negative judgments]. Leave the judging up to the actual judges/lawyers while they are deciding upon a verdict in a court case.

until next time,
Lauren